I am not what has happened to me. I am what I choose to become.
— Carl Jung

EMDR

What Is EMDR?

EMDR is a structured therapy that helps you work through difficult memories while staying grounded in the present.

During EMDR, you will:

  • Focus on a memory, feeling, or belief

  • Use gentle back-and-forth movements (eye movements, tapping, or sounds)

  • Allow your brain to process the experience in a new way

EMDR helps reduce the emotional intensity of memories so they no longer feel overwhelming.


What Can I Expect in EMDR?

EMDR is done step by step, with a focus on safety and support.

You can expect:

  • Preparation and coping skills to help you feel grounded

  • A pace that feels comfortable, with no pressure to share more than you’re ready for

  • Gradual processing of memories in manageable pieces

  • Guidance and support throughout each session

Over time, many people notice:

  • Memories feel less intense

  • Emotional reactions decrease

  • Thoughts and perspectives begin to shift

The goal is not to erase memories, but to help them feel less overwhelming.


What Does an EMDR Session Look Like?

Sessions follow a structured and supportive process:

  • Check-in and grounding to make sure you feel stable

  • Choosing a focus (a memory, feeling, or belief)

  • Processing using back-and-forth movements

  • Noticing changes in thoughts, feelings, or body sensations

  • Closing the session with grounding and support

You remain in control throughout the process and can pause at any time.


Is EMDR Right for Me?

EMDR may be helpful if you:

  • Have experienced trauma or distressing events

  • Feel triggered by reminders of the past

  • Struggle with anxiety, panic, or feeling on edge

  • Notice patterns that feel hard to change

  • Feel like certain memories are still affecting you

EMDR can help with:

  • Trauma and PTSD

  • Anxiety and panic

  • Negative beliefs about yourself

  • Stress related to past experiences

EMDR may not be the first step if you are in a current crisis or need more support with stability and coping skills. In those cases, we begin by building safety and move at a pace that feels right for you.

You do not have to be sure if EMDR is the right fit. We can talk through your needs and decide together what will be most helpful.

A Gentle Reminder

  • You are always in control

  • You can pause at any time

  • We go at a pace that feels safe for you

EMDR is not about reliving the past—it is about helping it feel less heavy.


Learn more about EMDR

Therapists Trained In EMDR