“I am not what has happened to me. I am what I choose to become.”
EMDR
What Is EMDR?
EMDR is a structured therapy that helps you work through difficult memories while staying grounded in the present.
During EMDR, you will:
Focus on a memory, feeling, or belief
Use gentle back-and-forth movements (eye movements, tapping, or sounds)
Allow your brain to process the experience in a new way
EMDR helps reduce the emotional intensity of memories so they no longer feel overwhelming.
What Can I Expect in EMDR?
EMDR is done step by step, with a focus on safety and support.
You can expect:
Preparation and coping skills to help you feel grounded
A pace that feels comfortable, with no pressure to share more than you’re ready for
Gradual processing of memories in manageable pieces
Guidance and support throughout each session
Over time, many people notice:
Memories feel less intense
Emotional reactions decrease
Thoughts and perspectives begin to shift
The goal is not to erase memories, but to help them feel less overwhelming.
What Does an EMDR Session Look Like?
Sessions follow a structured and supportive process:
Check-in and grounding to make sure you feel stable
Choosing a focus (a memory, feeling, or belief)
Processing using back-and-forth movements
Noticing changes in thoughts, feelings, or body sensations
Closing the session with grounding and support
You remain in control throughout the process and can pause at any time.
Is EMDR Right for Me?
EMDR may be helpful if you:
Have experienced trauma or distressing events
Feel triggered by reminders of the past
Struggle with anxiety, panic, or feeling on edge
Notice patterns that feel hard to change
Feel like certain memories are still affecting you
EMDR can help with:
Trauma and PTSD
Anxiety and panic
Negative beliefs about yourself
Stress related to past experiences
EMDR may not be the first step if you are in a current crisis or need more support with stability and coping skills. In those cases, we begin by building safety and move at a pace that feels right for you.
You do not have to be sure if EMDR is the right fit. We can talk through your needs and decide together what will be most helpful.
A Gentle Reminder
You are always in control
You can pause at any time
We go at a pace that feels safe for you
EMDR is not about reliving the past—it is about helping it feel less heavy.
Learn more about EMDR
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Videos about how EMDR works and it's effectiveness:
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This is a short news story that talks about the effectiveness of EMDR.
This is an 11 minute long video that has success stories of people who have done EMDR.
Therapists Trained In EMDR